Can you share earrings with your friends?

Can you share earrings with your friends?

Sharing is caring—but does that apply to earrings? Unlike borrowing a sweater or swapping accessories, earrings come with some unique considerations. Let’s explore when it’s okay to share, when to think twice, and how to keep your jewelry clean if you do.

Is it okay to share earrings with family?


Borrowing jewelry from family is a classic way to share style. From heirloom pieces to stylish everyday earrings, many families love to pass down or share accessories. But earrings are different—they sit directly against your skin and go through your piercings, meaning they can collect bacteria and even transfer infections.

If you’re sharing with someone close, make sure:

  1. Their ears are healthy and irritation-free.

  2. The earrings are cleaned before and after being worn.

  3. You use studs or hoops rather than designs that could trap bacteria (like intricate or textured pieces).

For sentimental jewelry, such as earrings passed down through generations, consider having them professionally cleaned before wearing. This keeps them sparkling while ensuring they remain safe for your skin.

If you really want to share, clean properly


If you love swapping earrings with friends or family, the key is proper cleaning. Earrings are one of the most high-contact pieces of jewelry, so keeping them germ-free is essential. Here’s what you should do before and after sharing:

  • Wipe earrings with a soft cloth after each wear.

  • Use a gentle jewelry cleaning solution or warm, soapy water.

  • For deep cleaning, use rubbing alcohol or hydrogen peroxide—especially if the earrings were worn by someone else.

  • Avoid using harsh chemicals on gold or pearl earrings, as they require extra care.

Want a full guide? Check out How to Clean Your Earrings and How to Disinfect Earrings to make sure they stay in perfect condition.

Final Thoughts

Sharing earrings isn’t impossible, but it does require a little extra care. If you love swapping styles with family or friends, cleaning is a must—and for those with sensitive skin, keeping earrings to yourself might be the safest choice.

After all, some accessories are just too good not to keep all to yourself!